It is true that most times we find Love accidentally but there are certain places where you can expect to meet people you hold dear to your heart. Read about some possible places you can get to meet that special person…
Your Work Place
Dating a coworker may be taboo, but it
happens often. Over 10 years ago, Lourdes Estevez, 40, a tenured Math
teacher from New York City, met her husband, Ray Milian, 43, at work.
“There were some ooh’s and ah’s,” said Lourdes of the experience.
Despite the controversy (and two kids and a house in NJ later) the
happily married couple would do it again in a mathematical second.
Networking Events
When successful, we attend networking
events to represent our company or mingle with prospective clients. It
is almost a requirement, so why not have fun with it and be open to
finding a soulmate? You’re already there. Use your multitasking skills
to connect with a new client and a potential date.
Conferences
Adam Calderon and Hilda Toribio met via
LATISM (Latinos in Tech Innovation and Social Media), a not-for-profit
organization that tackles issues affecting Latinos through the use of
social media. Busy schedules and all, they attended a LATISM conference,
became friends and fell in love. This can happen to you as well. You
just have to attend, mingle, and be open! Remember that love is
everywhere, even if you’re busy.
Online Dating
If you don’t want to mix business with
pleasure, online dating may be the perfect fit for your packed schedule.
I met Boo on Plenty of Fish while Tanya Thomas, a busy Panamanian
Staffing Supervisor from Pennsylvania, met her husband on Match.com.
They even had a long distance relationship to start!
If Match isn’t your cup of tea, there
are other dating sites that have successfully paired entrepreneurs,
CEO’s, and creatives. Try POF or OK Cupid (both are free sites) or
Zoosk, Bumble or How About We (you pay a monthly membership fee).
Matchmaker, Matchmaker, Find Me A Date
Let’s say online dating isn’t for you.
Thankfully, there are other options! You have the funds and little time,
so why not hire a matchmaker? Take note – a successful matchmaker will
cost you a pretty penny. But it saves you time. When you hire a
matchmaker, they do the heavy lifting. They select who is right for you.
All you have to do is show up.
Stop the Excuses
Being “busy” or “consumed with work” is
an excuse to remain single. Love isn’t going to knock on your door! And
even if it did (perhaps a co-worker needs more than a fact sheet?), you
must find the time and energy to build a relationship and create a
foundation. Finding a soulmate takes a lot of trial and error. You have
to stop making excuses and just go for it.
Meeting your soulmate is only half the
battle as relationships are work. To strengthen a connection and create a
life with a partner requires as much time as that brief on your desk,
as much dedication as getting that promotion, and as much commitment as
signing on that dotted line to become partner at your firm. Finding your
soulmate is truly up to you. Get on it and build your romantic
enterprise.
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