If someone is truly ready to move on emotionally, one final
sexual experience could be seen as a bitter-sweet ending to a
relationship that didn’t quite work.
People do this all the time and it’s… kinda
weird, considering that when people want to break up, they do so most
times out of frustration and disappointment, bitterness, resentment and a
host of other negative energy.
Considered
from another angle, though, it may not be so weird to engage in goodbye
sex especially if the reasons for breaking up are rooted in
circumstances that could not be helped – discordant genotypes
and parents that won’t give their blessings are examples that readily
come to mind. These cases are typical examples of what just wasn’t meant
to be.
Having said that, we should also note that
leaving a relationship while riding on a wave of sexual satisfaction is
one thing; going back over and over again for that orgasmic feeling is
another thing. Goodbye sex is something, constantly going back to an ex
for sex is another thing.
When you have had enough of a partner’s trashy
behavior and their disrespectful, unfaithful ways; when you think
you’ve had enough of them and all that has to do with their ugly
personalities, but your body keeps yearning for them and you find
yourself saying yes every time they call, you need to realize that to an
extent, this is understandable.
For men and women who somehow found the
perfect match for the lighting of their sexual fires, letting go would
be difficult. The mind may know that it is time to let go and may
actually uncleave itself from the idea of romantic bliss, but as many
people have found out; the mind does not easily forget the memories of
the longs nights and hot days of passionate lovemaking; neither does the
body suddenly stop responding to the familiar fingers that stoke the
widest fires in the most intimate places.